So, you think its only you, who is facing this..!! Right..??? Then, My friend you got it wrong..!!!
Wondering, What am I talking about?? Go ahead, read and you would feel you are standing in-front of the mirror, my friend..!!
Is it the time, when you've stopped going along with the crowd & started realizing that there are a lot many things about yourself that you didn't even know & may or may not like?? You've suddenly started feeling insecure & started wondering, where you will be in a year or two? Does such thinking or thought process scaring you to the core? But then you stop thinking because you barely know where you are now.
You start realizing that people are selfish & that may be those friends that you thought you were so close to ain't exactly the greatest people you have ever met. Suddenly, the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones!! What you do not realize is that they are realizing that too & are not really cold or selfish or mean or insincere, but that they are just as confused as you are...!!
You look at your job!! It is not even close to what you thought you would be doing or maybe you are looking for one. Suddenly you've started realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom & are scared again.
You miss the comforts of college, ease of being in groups, fun of socializing with the same people on a constant basis. But then you realize that may be they weren't so great after all.
You are beginning to understand yourself more & what you want from life!! Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing & find yourself judging a bit more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life. Now, you add things to your list of what is acceptable & what is not!! You are insecure sometimes & then again secure at times!! You laugh & cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone, scared & confused. Suddenly, CHANGE is the wildest enemy of yours & you try & cling on to the past with dear life. But soon you realize that the past is drifting further & further away & there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.
You get your heart broken & wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you & wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough to get to know better. You love someone but you cannot figure out why!!
Random hook ups start to look cheap & getting wasted & acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. You go through the same emotions & questions over & over. You talk to your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision.
You worry about loans & money & the future & making a life for yourself. While wining the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender!!
But friends, folks, people, trust me you are in your best of the times as well as one of the worst of your times too, trying as hard as you want to figure this whole thing out..!! Welcome to real world..!! Welcome to Quarter Life Crisis...!! So, What's the solution to this Crisis???
You really think there's a solution to such stage of life? Actually, we all know the solution but its pretty hard to implement. Just to make it clear for all my friends out here, Just go slow..!! Stop demanding from life & from yourself so much!! Stop Comparing yourself with others (I know its very hard to implement). While looking out for a new job, take out time to thank god for your present job.
Take out time for your loved ones & spend valuable time with them. You might want to take out time to talk or catch up with the person you love the most..!! So, how about calling her / him today and tell her / him that how much you love her / him??? How about pampering your own self today? If you want others to love you, first make sure you love yourself.
Try to reach out to your family and tell them they are an inevitable part of your life. How about enjoying beautiful mysteries of nature?? Start enjoying the beautiful drizzles, pouring rains, black & white ambiances, lush green environment, smiles of kids around you, blessings of elders around you. Simple? Not at all... That's why I said, we all knew the solution but its very hard to implement!!
But can we give it a shot?? If yes is your answer please go ahead and tell your special one, your family, your friends today that you love them a lot. If no is your answer please feel free to make me aware of your own creative solutions, folks!! Wish you all a great future and all the best!!
Please, feel free to comment, suggest, criticize or advise on my posts..!!! :)
Wondering, What am I talking about?? Go ahead, read and you would feel you are standing in-front of the mirror, my friend..!!
Is it the time, when you've stopped going along with the crowd & started realizing that there are a lot many things about yourself that you didn't even know & may or may not like?? You've suddenly started feeling insecure & started wondering, where you will be in a year or two? Does such thinking or thought process scaring you to the core? But then you stop thinking because you barely know where you are now.
You start realizing that people are selfish & that may be those friends that you thought you were so close to ain't exactly the greatest people you have ever met. Suddenly, the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones!! What you do not realize is that they are realizing that too & are not really cold or selfish or mean or insincere, but that they are just as confused as you are...!!
You look at your job!! It is not even close to what you thought you would be doing or maybe you are looking for one. Suddenly you've started realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom & are scared again.
You miss the comforts of college, ease of being in groups, fun of socializing with the same people on a constant basis. But then you realize that may be they weren't so great after all.
You are beginning to understand yourself more & what you want from life!! Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing & find yourself judging a bit more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life. Now, you add things to your list of what is acceptable & what is not!! You are insecure sometimes & then again secure at times!! You laugh & cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone, scared & confused. Suddenly, CHANGE is the wildest enemy of yours & you try & cling on to the past with dear life. But soon you realize that the past is drifting further & further away & there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.
You get your heart broken & wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you & wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough to get to know better. You love someone but you cannot figure out why!!
Random hook ups start to look cheap & getting wasted & acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. You go through the same emotions & questions over & over. You talk to your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision.
You worry about loans & money & the future & making a life for yourself. While wining the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender!!
But friends, folks, people, trust me you are in your best of the times as well as one of the worst of your times too, trying as hard as you want to figure this whole thing out..!! Welcome to real world..!! Welcome to Quarter Life Crisis...!! So, What's the solution to this Crisis???
You really think there's a solution to such stage of life? Actually, we all know the solution but its pretty hard to implement. Just to make it clear for all my friends out here, Just go slow..!! Stop demanding from life & from yourself so much!! Stop Comparing yourself with others (I know its very hard to implement). While looking out for a new job, take out time to thank god for your present job.
Take out time for your loved ones & spend valuable time with them. You might want to take out time to talk or catch up with the person you love the most..!! So, how about calling her / him today and tell her / him that how much you love her / him??? How about pampering your own self today? If you want others to love you, first make sure you love yourself.
Try to reach out to your family and tell them they are an inevitable part of your life. How about enjoying beautiful mysteries of nature?? Start enjoying the beautiful drizzles, pouring rains, black & white ambiances, lush green environment, smiles of kids around you, blessings of elders around you. Simple? Not at all... That's why I said, we all knew the solution but its very hard to implement!!
But can we give it a shot?? If yes is your answer please go ahead and tell your special one, your family, your friends today that you love them a lot. If no is your answer please feel free to make me aware of your own creative solutions, folks!! Wish you all a great future and all the best!!
Please, feel free to comment, suggest, criticize or advise on my posts..!!! :)
