Do's & Don'ts, While Planning a date with a Girl...!!!

Aaaah..!! Well, this might interest guys as well as galzz too. Yeah, we have often seen guys with average looks, dating really pretty galzz & on the other hand, dashing, handsome guys just roam around wondering, "Yaar, usmein aisa kya hai, jo mujhmein nahi hai..?" Well, I recently went through a research work done by a famous author David DeAngelo, which stated a few dating tips or rather what a man should or shouldn't ask to a women, he intends to date. So, fasten your seat belts coz we are on a short voyage, to learn a few Do's and Don'ts as tips for dating.

1. Hmmm.. This tip is specially for "Emraan Hashmi" fans. Here's a good news for them. The first & the foremost tip is that a man should never ask a woman, if he can kiss her, as she will only say, "A man should never "ask" for a kiss." Asking her for a kiss would only prove that you are still an immature boy & not man enough to go ahead and "just do it". This attitude will definitely make her uninterested & even if she chose to say "yes" that will just be a polite gesture of hers, while inside her, her attraction meter would read a big "NO"... So, please avoid being such a jerk, guys..!!
2. Well, if you like being a permission seeker or a follower, Get Awake or its time to loose your date...!! Yes, Girls like Leaders & those who takes control of a situation. A man should never ask a woman if he can take her on a date, as she would like to be with a man who is a leader & in full control, not with someone, who asks her permission to hit on her. Instead, it would be appreciable if he confidently walks upto her & simply asks, "We should hang out sometime today....Where can I confirm you the venue, by the way..?" A woman like audacious man..!! So, let go all your fears from now on....!!
3. Stop Boasting your assets, for heaven's sake..!! She's not here to calculate your net worth or Market Value !! Yes, A man should never brag about the kind of car he has or the kind of house he resides in as it would obviously seem that you are really trying hard to impress the girl. That leaves a negative impression about your personality on that lady. She would be far more impressed if she finds all your possessions or assets or attributes by herself.. So, Stop doing GAGAGAGA about yourself..!!
4. If you work on a contingency basis, its time for you to switch off that mode and become an effective planner. Its because a woman always likes a "Man with a plan." A man should never ask in first place to a woman what she wants to do for tonight. The man needs to have a game plan at his disposal before he calls her, so as to ensure not to burden her with this action of thinking (girls, afterall hates thinking... ;-)). After hearing your plans, if she comes up with some other thing, then that's a different thing. But atleast you "Turned On" her "Thinking Mode.." So, You mandatorily need to be a Smart Planner, to get your things going, guys..!!
5. Theories of Physics runs on assumptions, Relationships & life doesn't !! Says who...? At times, its good to assume a few things while dating a girl. A man should never ask a woman if she likes him, as this is one phrase which completely turns off a woman. He should assume that she likes him as not assuming this would appear in his gesture making him low on confidence, which girls simply hate. So, Simply say "I like you.." After all, Fortune favours the audacious..!! ;-)
6. Avoid being affected by her "not so good" gestures..!! Not clear..?  A man should never ask a woman why she never answered his messages, as one, it would show that he really cared, she did not reply back & two, it would give her a guilt trip, which is generally seen as insecurity by women. So, Let her not reply for sometime, after all, "Patience Pays, guys..!!" Relax..!!
7. Umm Hmm.. Are you an insecure Person? Do you really feel jealous at times? You really want to poke your nose into a woman's past life? If answer to all these questions is "Yes", then dude you are really in trouble. A man should never ask a woman, how many men she has slept with or how many boy friends or affairs she had in the past, as all these show that the guy is suffering from insecurity syndrome. Also, a girl often feels offended if you encroach her personal space directly. Let her open up by herself about her past relationships slowly and slowly. Afterall, All the great things in this world have to be enjoyed slowly, if you really wants a real taste of them. Love is one of those things, guys..!!
8. Be a good planner but never be a despo..!! Yes, Desperation kills the cat in the chase itself.. A man should never hint at a future date with a woman he has just met, as she not only wants but needs a guy who is somewhat of a "challenge"& she will loose interest the moment she realise that she has won. So, at times its better to hide "your real-self" (if you really are a despo)..!! ;-)
9. Well, always avoid being predictable. While ending a phone conversation with a woman, never end it on a "next step" note , as firstly, it would kill any spontaneity by being predictable, & secondly, you would also kill the chances of her calling you. So, keep up all your plans with you & let them come out at the right time. After all, everybody is a hero in himself, provided you catch him at the right time "in action."
10.  Last but certainly not the least is that a man should never ever talk bad about a woman's male friends especially, if he hasn't met them & doesn't know them very well. Even if you know them well, avoid criticizing till the time she initiates it, otherwise you would be eligible to be entitled to "An Insecure" person which girls simply hate to be with. Hence, Swallow your hatred, for the sake of your Love..!!

Hmm.. I don't know whether reading this blog post would really be helpful to guys or not. For this, is a known fact that reading all the theories of Einstein, couldn't ever create another of the same intellectual level. So, I pray and wish I could motivate few guys through this post, which obviously is inspired by a research work done by David DeAngelo. Also, many of the galzz would not agree to all those points, I mentioned above & to join the party would be quite a few guys too. But, how does it matter, guys.. Afterall finding love is never a strategy. It just happens..!! So, the best strategy is that leads you to success, let it be anything.. So, my apologies to all those who would like to differ from me & pat on the back to those,who chose to agree with me. Above all, best wishes to all those who would seriously like to follow these tips. May you get your love, guys..!!! Keep Rocking..!!